My First Blog!

I've always wanted one of these things, and it wasn't until recently (an hour ago) that I finally decided to create one for myself! Yaaaaay me. Now I have more reasons to be vampire-like rather than tossing and turning in my bed. My life is strikingly admirable must I say.

While my fingers are at the brink of being half frozen, I can't help but try to think of some place or idea to keep my brain warm. The sun, a hot cup of cappuccino, blankets; more in depth warmth...good times, family, friends, my girlfriends especially. And this is the part where my wandering thoughts take an abrupt halt. Ladies (or gentlemen), have you ever had one of those friends whom (up until today I still don't know if I use this term correctly) you pity because they've seemed to completely lost their ability to think and make decisions for themselves because of their significant other? Well sail away with me in my boat, because it's sad to say but I believe I've have a few more than I actually should.

Call me childish but it has always boggled my mind how mindless these girls can be. As I can recall, I've been ditched several times, plans have never gone as supposed to because "something" came up. Sure, I wouldn't mind so much if this occured only once in a while, but believe you me, it happened consecutively to the point where I got annoyed and didn't bother making plans with them anymore all because I knew they wouldn't follow through anyway. I'm blogging about it so yeah, it was that bad. I respect their relationships dearly but damn woman, one day with your friend instead of your man will not kill you nor would it punture a wound in his heart. I would understand if these girls only spent time with their boyfriends here and there but it was every single day! Not just every single day but it was every minute of every single day literally. Clingy would be an understatement for these girls. Not that I would know, but from what I've seen and observed over the past few years of my adolescent stage, I've learnt that men need certain days to BREATHE. Hell, I would need a few days to myself as well if my boyfriend became that attached. I've loved to China and back and I know no love is so tremendous that a couple must spend every single precious moment of time with each other. Not unless they were in their 80s, both diagnosed with a disease and were dying as I type...and even then they'd probably take five minutes to go drop the kids off at the pool and read a magazine.

A message to these girls, grow a spine perhaps. Your boyfriend will still be there when you come back from a 30 minute lunch with your girlfriends. Throw him on a couch with a PS3 and it's a guarantee he'd still be in the exact same position you last left him. Learn how to think for yourselves and not what he tells you. Appreciate your surroundings although it may seem hard because you're so lost in his eyes. Don't forget you have amazing girlfriends who very much miss spending time with you! And if you don't, when you realize you actually still need friends in your life, it might already be too late. I know I sure don't stick around with girls who blow me off every single time we make plans and still expect us to be best friends forever. I've got better things to do.

How's that for a first blog? Amusing, eh?